There is definitely potential for dishonesty(especially Mars) so one partner could be dishonest or cheat on the other. Although this house offers both our soul mate or our enemy, along with our fears, phobias, and those things we that we do that undermine our happiness. Venus in 10th House synastry indicates a kind of built in security since both partners feel comfortable with their relationship no matter where they end up geographically. However,from reading the comments here, it seems that the planet person can be just as affected as the house person. Sadly to say those attractions/connections do NOT work out well and the relationships are of short duration, for the most part. It is sometimes necessary to give people the spacevthey need, even if it hurts. I think what really happens is too much is shared to quickly, many secrets, and hidden parts of oneself and why things often get complicated. Venus in Houses Synastry Meanings: 1st through 12th House I attracted those people in my relationship. I have neptune (Sagitarius) in my 7th house with Gemini rising. Very confusing . you just have to separate your spirit from them somehow, as that seems to be the deepest connection between you and them. He seemed very interested at first but the moment he felt I was getting attached he used the I am not looking for a relationship card. You WILL find an emotionally available, decent man if you dont settle on lesser models. Same thingsso magnetiche is plutonian, and his pluto trine my moon and sextile my venus and semisextile my sun. Every synastry aspect Ive read into says that he should have felt more for me and I just dont know if that could be possible. I don't know. Okay, so you're saying (as the Venus person in other people's 12th house in the past) that Aqua Venus people will make their affections quite obvious to the 12th house person? Im afraid he would stifle me and kill my spirit from the inside out. Now i know why. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a, Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 No idea if I appear in his?! Sometimes because we were deluded by the other, sometimes because we deluded ourselves, or saw things that were not really there at all, we felt they were, but that's not what they were. Years ago i was dating someone whom i had the same aspect with. One thing for sure, 12th house relationships are Karmic. It may not display this or other websites correctly. The 12th House & Love Astrology - The Dark Pixie Astrology Where you see Venus, you can expect things to have an easy flow. Long story short, we both loved each other but it didn't work out for various reasons (I suspect fear and insecurity was the main issue - karmic connection). In fact, Venus is considered another guru in astrology besides Jupiter, which become exalted in the most spiritual sign Pisces. Love you, Elsa many thanks for this wonderful forum! Once around, up and down was TOO much for that villian! Well you can imagine how the proposition to be his off-time mistress set with my Midhaven in Aries. Sadly, I was the house person and hopelessly in love, while the Venus person would not admit their feelings even though we both knew they did feel for me, just like I felt for them.. Actually, the guy told me "I love you, *insert my name here*" while we were in class, but we barely knew each other and I didn't know if he was being serious.. later on he denied it said it was a joke (but it wasn't). Venus in 12th House Synastry Overlay If your Venus is in your partner's 12th house of a synastry overlay, you find yourself deeply moved in strange ways by the house person. What he did to you was cowardly. My Venus conjunct his north node in 12 Pisces , and his Venus conjunct my vertex on desc ..From my part, I felt the karmic connexion.I was sure I need to do something with him, teach him something, Learn something from him..and I felt the sexual attraction also ( we have Sun/Pluto in 8 Scorpio) but,guess what? If he has Moon/Cancer, just know that you are dealing with an emotional and sensitive soul, which of course will make him insecure in his dealings with you. Unrequited Love in the Charts - My Christian Psychic Good- have found your posting your threads really helpful to me too..trying to suss all this out too! Although much of the time we find out it's ourself. But it's OK because we love being around each other. Hello Everyone,I can relate to alot of the post that I've read. I act so stupid around him and he makes it hard for me to think properly at all. His Mars conjunct my Saturn opposite my Pluto. he still talks with a kind voice which i hate of being him a hypocrite.what does the whole thing means? I don't know if I am able to, honestly.This really feels like karmic bond. Venus in the 8th House Synastry - A Complete Guide - Your Higher Journey As he has moved on, you must do also. You can hide things from eachother and it can make you feel vulnerable or weary, so it's not a house for everyone. Take it like a grain of salt and more of insecurity on their behalf. I believe it caused a lot of confusing both for him n I. Our fake fears you know, the what if's? Is your 12th house tenanted then? My gemini sun, cancer north node are in my 12th. Fatherly type things like that. But how can I be sure.. its the 12th house.. Hi everyone (waving)!! The 12th house person can annoy Mars because of the lack of immediate action. Everything has a timing. Not too hard for me to figure out, even though for years I was dodging it. Idk if its cause its cancer in that house or my super exhausted Jupiter giving me a savior complex but its kinda like familial love like no matter what he always has a place in my heart. We may still be able to figure it out. It's as if its a fairytale, make belive love and Im in a dream. We had an affair that was hidden, even though I would have given everything to be with him full time. Do you guys think it's possible to have a (happy) relationship with this placement?Looks like it always turns sour. My north node in Cancer in the 12th conjuncts his venus and mercury. I love him so much, I dont even know what to do with myself. Him: Cancer sun/moon, Libra rising, Gemini Venus Me: Libra sun, leo moon, Gemini rising , Scorpio Venus. This happens for me with my Neptune in the 1st house I can take in people's feelings, illness or a array of different things that pass through me temporarily. Are you afraid to admit your feelings? Venus person and House 1 person feel a. Some would be uncomfortable with someone seeping into their dreams or communicating with them in the ethereal realm. You know how you feel different in a dream but it's very real? Required fields are marked *. Orange. You could have an unwavering affection for this individual. It's very common to do with placements in this house. His Moon squares my NN. In future, i'll try to do some research about this mysterious house according to my religion. Registered: May 2009. posted June 11, 2013 02:39 PM. Venus is considered a Benefic, which means that this planet tends to bring good fortune. First of all i think in this case venus is in the 1st house. DUBLIGATO all OVAH the place, lol!!! He is much older than me, far better positioned, with flaws, yet a hero to me. does the planet that falls in your 12th aspect anything else in your chart? My ex-12th Houser has Venus/Cancer which made it difficult for him to open up, unless it was totally on HIS terms. You have a tendency to fall in love with people who re not available, and . Same here. Venus in partner's 12th house: This indicates a strong subconscious attraction which can sometimes feel confusing, because there is a lot of fog around emotions. This house holds many lifetimes of memories. it be TROUBLE at times, and very hard. With your partner's Venus in your 12th house, you are drawn to and captivated by your significant other. When they found out about him talking to me they were furious that he never told me about THEM! lol He also has his Mercury conjuncting my Sun in the 8th house and his Venus conjuncts my Venus as well as his Mars conjuncts my Mars. These are people who souls we touch and theirs ours. I jokingly used to call myself serial monogamist. He scares me sometimes because he has a violent tendency and I think he activated my 12th house because all of a sudden Im afraid to be with him for the rest of my life even though I know we were made for each other. i had experience with a guy who have 4 benefic planets in my 12th house. so we didnt mentioned it untill the last month, i couldnt stand it anymore, and i wanted clairity, if he ever had felt for me. I trust everything happens for a reason! Hi, Heather. Definitely feels fated/destined/telepathic/psychic. He indeed often told me that we do have a strong connection. I dont want him anymore as he rejected me but I cant help but stop thinking about him. If they are yours theyll come back and if they dont they never were., I can vouch for this too. I can definitely feel the effects of his planets in my 12th, but in your experience is the planet person affected? As somebody with a 10th house stellium, including Mars, Moon, & Venus with Aries on the midheaven-if somebody fails to openly display their feelings for me, I'm gone. It never went fully public (as in, while everyone knew we were together, we never met our friends or family). Im so sorry for the delay! The 12th house belongs to the triangle of salvation or Moksha Trikona while Venus is a very spiritual planet. SYNASTRY: NORTH AND SOUTH NODE CONNECTIONS. And thats when he disappeared. My sun, mercury, Venus and Jupiter conjunct his Pluto in the 12th. My Lib Sun and Jupiter falls in his 12th. As somebody with a 10th house stellium, including Mars, Moon, & Venus with Aries on the midheavenif somebody fails to openly display their feelings for me, Im gone. Just count your blessings for the dance you experienced, and move on to someone/something new. . I'm so sad that he choose to be with someone else. Guess that his Sun/Gem didnt like me pursuing him, but he toyed with me from time to time as he was, natch, curious about how I worked. As with all conjunctions, Venus conjunct Pluto synastry can play out in positive and negative scenarios alike.. Venus conjunct Pluto synastry relationships are based on the partners' strong romantic and physical attraction. I have something of a business relationship with someone. The moon represents our instincts, our moods, our feelings and emotional responses along with how we nurture, feel nurtured, the wo North and South node connections in synastry are very powerful and often fated. You will also find you share many of the same values, interests, and likes. One who never had to deal with neptune before would have it very difficult to submerge themselves past the toes dipping. It's amazing. just keep on going in the OPPOSITE direction away from me as FAR AS YOU CAN!! Sounds like your experience was on the negative side. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register. November 9, 2012 astrologyanonymous27 5 Comments. Venus is a beneficial planet in astrology. For example, you may not be a needy person, but you find yourself being very needy or vulnerable around the house person. It was beautiful and tragic, and the deepest feelings I ever had.. Maybe its fortuitous that it ended early for you, sweetie. Venus is the planet of love which makes him lovable by his likable behavior and persuasive way of talking. I'm not all that great with articulating stuff that's not of this world. Where your Venus falls in your partner's chart shows where you bring these energies into their life. He showed me where to go, was a teacher to me, yet he said I was too young for him and that was only thing that in his opinion is stop to a relationship of a serious kind. Ive cut our contact channels. Someone may be misinterpreting something. At least I know now that I'm not the only one spilling my water in the 12th house, lol. Posts: 15From: united statesRegistered: Jun 2013. Disappointments come because we think there is something more even when the person has clearly said there's not. We exist in very different worlds and it just is not convenient to tell him. Hi Aida! Maybe my cancer north node and his venus in cancer helps things. Am thankful that noting bad occurred from him, but there was the feeling that he could and would hurt me. The same potential is there with composite charts and a lot of 12th house emphasis. I wish you lick with your 12th Houser, but there is a saying that 12th House connections are doomed to fail at least at one point. The Venus person will like the way you conduct yourself, your . The 12th house usually involves secret love affairs and unrequited love. Can you tell me whats really going on here? The 12th house also has deep connections with dreaming, rest, and introspection. inscryption cards. but I must admit they FASCINATE me!! Hi thank you for visiting! But that energy is always in the background waiting for a chance to re-ignite. You need some fire. Now, the twelfth house is a tricky house when it is activated in synastry. I mean your spirits are communicating with each other, that type of thing. Venus determines the way you approach relationships, romance, and love. There are two zodiac signs associated with Venus in astrology. ( also his merc, pluto and uranus are in my 12th). Venus in 8th House Synastry - Attraction, Intimacy, Secrecy It means he has an inner conflict going on that is psychological in nature. Although my guy is very vulnerable with me as well, he is still more controlled than I, in the sharing of deeper things (probably his Scorp rising). But what made it all so compelling, is that I REMEMBERED HIM FROM TWO PAST LIVES when we were mates!! Also, my sun/venus are in his 10th, moon in his 5th, mars in his 4th. I've noticed a few times I have had this placement with somone I care very deeply about, but for some reason the feelings are never mutual. The 12th house rules things. This is the house of Venus and Taurus, so there will also be some jealousy and protectiveness of each other as well. Pretty much text book situation. And ever since we started communicating I have that strange feeling of telepathic connection between us.Is it possible that this 12th house influence works so strong with people who never met in person?We don't know each other in RL and I don't know how that is going to work out when we meet.My Pluto square his Sun/Mars kazimi conjunction, within 0 degrees. The love for this man has boosted my spiritual development, mainly though an infinite suffering that has no end Our feelings are mutual (my Venus tightly conjunct his Neptune that can mean that I also boost his spiritual development), but for some karmic reasons we cannot be together. Very easy. Relationships that take place here( 2 or more planets in this house) offer a great deal of healing, self undoing, and even unconditional love but it's not easy to navigate. Look for hard aspects from his venus to your planets. When we met I felt like I had seen him before..we started talking online then decided to meet. It could be due to different things.. like the planet person is insecure/shy/doesn't wanna show their love in an open way, or just that the house person doesn't "get" the planet person's way of loving. In synastry when people impact this house, there is often sort of confessional that occurs. We face the same situation when someone touch our 12th house. It is a great placement in synastry, of course depending on other aspects to the degree. How is in your case? He seem to know all about me even i don't tell or exposed my darkest psyche to him. And he's had a muscle twitch problem for years. His acts of ghosting you and shutting you down via social media makes me think that he might also be a tad sociopathic thats a common trait. Venus Synastry in the Houses - Pathstrology Best wishes to you darling and thank you for sharing your story :), I just read the previous 12th house story and the aspects are nearly the same as with the guy I am seeing. We have our suns, moons, venus and mars all the same sign and his neptune falls into my 12th house. Pisces is the sign without boundaries. and my northnode conjuct on his jupiter and saturn on my 2nd house. Thinking this would help. It's such a surreal feeling. Explore the synastry between you and your partner Composite Chart / Synastry Report Bundle. Does that sound reasonable with his neptune being in my 12th house? He inspires it or mirrors it and you feel close to him because of this. 12th house synastry venus - bpbwmb.salesconsulter.de Often taking hour long walks around town/woods just the two of us, talking endlessly.I just see ALL this Neptunian energy and wonder if there is even a point of pursuing him that way rather than just staying really, really good friends. Venus in the 12th house Synastry ( Love that's hard to catch) All of the guys whom I'm involved above have stellium especially benefic planets in my 12th house. Thanks for the 12th house information. I, like YOU much prefer the beneficial planets:), I have someone venus conjunct my pluto in my 12th house . He brings my daughter candy and buys her ice cream and toys. When we are having a nightmare we have to face immense fears. I am fascinated by them, and the love I feel is otherworldly. Who knows! I can sense when he needs something even when he isn't next to me. Ive always been madly in love with him, andhe claims he isntbut his actions speak otherwise. The Venus would be read as being in your first house since the conjunction is so close to your Ascendant. Any planet in the 12th house is aiming for something beyond its grasp. So we became " friends" . You need to be clear in areas such as this, find out why you met this person or they you? and it was unreal and he sat down at our table and I felt like my entire body was on fire. Now it doesn't happen that often but I can say that as the house person, I'm almost always affected by someone who has Venus in my 12th and if it aspects some of my planets. It's true this house can be heavy, it's the house of hospitals, psychotherapist, prisons, too.